Everyone wants to be successful, famous, rich and happy in life. And in order to get all these things, everyone is running and trying his best to achieve his goals. But sometimes we forget that everything has two faces.
One side of the coin might be all about the stardust, happiness and those things that you want in life but you never know that the other face of the coin might be holding something dark for you.
Power comes with responsibility, wealth comes with liability and success and fame comes with the fear of losing it.
According to Ms. Yamini Sharma, “in both personal and professional life, we have to face some dark days. It might be challenging specially for women because a woman doesn’t only have to think about the consequences of her decision but also about the effect that it can make on her image in the society.”
It’s always the darkest before the dawn. In this cruel business world, you will definitely make some enemies, that will want to pull you down, make you feel defeated, put you in tons of problems and try to defame you.
It’s hard to believe but a bitter truth about our male dominating society that if a man’s enemy comes to his home and make an issue in public; people will see that, talk about that and then forget about that. But if a woman’s enemy will do the same then people will judge her, they will talk nonsense about her character, they will put some disgusting tags on her without even ask her about the incidence.
If a cop comes in a man’s home; people will probably think that it might be some small issue and won’t even talk about that much. But if a cop comes to a woman’s home; definitely people will again judge her, they will do unnecessary gossip and bitching about her, they will make that woman a culprit in their mind even if they have no idea why the cop is there.
Living in a male dominating society when everyone is ready to judge you, do gossip about you, give you a character certificate and blame you for the things you can’t do anything about; it’s very difficult to keep yourself positive and brave.
Most of the women don’t rais their voice because they don’t want unnecessary drama or uninvited tensions in their life. But sometimes even though we don’t want anything wrong in our lives, we have to keep our fears aside and be brave enough to face any damn things that can come in our path no matter how ugly things can get.
Of course, if you are wise enough, you should know the difference between being fearless and being stupid. But if the situation is getting out of your control and the only option left is to be fearless and brave, then no doubt you should go for it. Because the people who are going to judge you or talk bullshit about your character, are neither going to pay your bills nor help you in your tough time